WELCOME TO ENLIVEN
I am so glad you are here. As someone who spent years unknowingly struggling with codependency, I know how incredibly painful and hopeless it can feel. My mission is to offer an encouraging, personalized step-by-step approach to help you get over codependency fast. So you can find true inner peace and step into deeply fulfilling and beautiful life.
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My Story
When my relationship with a narcissist blew up, I hit a second rock bottom in my life. I felt completely hopeless and I truly wanted to give up on life. To make matters worse, I surrounded myself with people who were triggered by my codependency and got angry and insulting with me when I was in that place of heartbreak. Everywhere I turned, I seemed to hit another wall.
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After dedicating 3 years of my life and spending over $36,000 dollars on different trauma-informed therapists, intensive support groups and countless online courses - I finally broke free.
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I can now genuinely say that I live in a state of peace and joy a majority of the time. Of course things in life still come up - fears, worries, triggers, layoffs - but now I have a solid foundation no matter what. I was laid off the start of this year and I was stunned by how well I handled it. Boundaries that used to feel unloving and impossible to establish, now feel natural. Everything in my life - relationships, work, my health, my passions - are now blossoming from this inner place of fullness, peace and resilience.
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Once I learned what codependency was, I realized that my mum had struggled with codependency throughout her entire life. I saw how she abandoned her own life to serve others, how she hit a deep sense of hopelessness and checked out through addiction. I saw how how her inner light became dim. I saw her cycling in pain and regret for 35 years. When she was diagnosed with an incurable cancer far too young, my heart broke. It still breaks my heart to think of the pain she endured throughout her life. She was a beautiful and amazing woman but codependency stole years of her life. She is my inspiration, she is why I became adamant to heal my own codependency. She is also why I created this course and why I am on a mission to make it exceptional.
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Codependency is not small, it is insidious and it infiltrates our lives under the guise of kindness and love. But in truth, it actually steals our lives away. It hides out in our subconscious patterns for years and year. To me, it is often the most beautiful, empathetic, sensitive and extraordinary people who fall prey to codependency. If you sense you may be dealing with this, please reach out. There is no pressure to join, I just want to help.
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